A Sexual Awakening for Women

Have you ever thought there must be more to sex?

Well, sister, THERE IS.



If you want to feel confident, turned-on, and luscious in your skin....



Your Pleasure is a Priority!

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The Path to Pleasure is a 3 Month Immersion in Feminine Sexual Awakening.


- Two Weekend Retreats,
- Eight Virtual Group Sessions,
- A Private Intensive with Eva
- Finally, All the Pleasure You've Been Missing

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Sexual energy is a source of power, confidence and creativity in a woman's body.

you don't need a partner to ignite it.

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This is perfect for you if...


❤ You want to feel more sexual desire, orgasm, and unconditional love for your body.

❤ You're going through a transition — motherhood, a break-up/divorce, menopause, or a health diagnosis.

❤ You're frustrated with the sex you're having or NOT having.

❤ You'd love a new community of amazing women like you.


You are a beautiful, powerful, erotic creature


Our first retreat weekend:


Who are you really as a sexual woman? 

Because your relationship with sex is based on your relationship with Self, this weekend is a welcoming home to your authentic, indwelling erotic nature.  

You already have glimpses of your sexual self, as she's deep inside your heart.  Both soft and fierce, she longs to be fully freed...



A relaxing, life-changing weekend all to yourself, to indulge in self-love, pleasure and play in nature!

You walk into a room that's decked in red, lush, sensual comfort. The aroma of chocolate and lavender seduces your senses. Delights are everywhere ~ flowers, feathers, and furry cushions.

Outrageously fun, friendly, open-hearted women greet you with hugs and cheers, hand you a cup of tea, and settle in to listen, laugh, and heal.

On breaks you wander to the forest outside for warm spring sunshine, singing birds, and old oak trees. At night sit beneath the stars and curl up with your journal to rest, reflect and rejuvenate.

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What We Cover...

Women sexually liberate through the 5 Keys to Feminine Sexual Awakening: 1) Radical Self-Love, 2) Education, 3) Embodiment, 4) Intimacy 5) Freedom.

We'll build a luscious new relationship to sex from the inside out.

You Will:

  • Learn practices based on practical neuroscience, such as "Taking in the Good" – and how savoring simple joys re-patterns your nervous system and your [sex] life.

  • Discover how your sexual energy is your feminine superpower, and adopt practices based on ancient sexual Tantra and Taoist philosophy to boost and re-purpose sexual energy towards health, money, and love.

  • Learn how to pleasure yourself in electrifying (and surprising!) new ways by getting a re-education about sexual physiology.

  • Clear core beliefs and societal programming that might be blocking your ability to experience the explosive pleasure you're built for!

  • Cultivate an unconditional self-love that dissolves the inner critic and catapults your sexual radiance.



"Pussy Church"

with Sierra J. Sullivan


A Worship Ceremony for Women to Claim the Power and Divinity of their Sacred Flower.  Fall madly in love with your gorgeous sexual body, heal the past, and kindle a profound connection to your beautiful, all-knowing, infinitely wise pussy.  

*No nudity involved, and participation is completely optional.  Your pussy = your choice. 

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Sierra J. Sullivan is an Empowerment Mentor, Ritualist, Officiant & Sacred Journey Guide for women who seek more alignment in life, love and relationship. She uses sacred practices, rituals, ceremony and a whole lot of fun and play!

The BLOOM Retreat is 

April 6 & 7, 2019

Sat 10:00am - 9:00pm

Sun 10:00am - 6:00pm


Retreat Location: Tara Sanctuary, Topanga Canyon, CA (near Los Angeles)

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The Advanced Weekend:


This weekend is a hot-hot pleasure party, where you'll get adored by the masculine, learn sacred sexual arts, and get permission to explore your naughty edges.



What If You Had Full Permission to Want What You Want?

YOU get to define what sexual liberation means for YOU.

Squeals arise from the room as you enter. You're reunited with your friends from BLOOM and everyone's excited to catch up - A LOT has happened since last time!

Electric anticipation fills the air as you KNOW that what's ahead will be absolutely scintillating!

Pleasure-full movement, wild abandon, and deep healing with the masculine.

A new sex life. A new YOU.

What We Cover...

Reclaiming Your Divine Right to Pleasure.

  • HEAL YOUR RELATIONSHIP WITH THE MASCULINE. The secrets of male psychology will be revealed by a panel of carefully selected men who'll answer your most candid questions about what men really want, how they love, and what truly turns them on (you may be hugely surprised!).

  • Be nurtured and uplifted by our sisterhood as you dispel guilt and step fully into your unapologetic, bodacious, badass self.

  • Deepen your knowledge of sexual anatomy, the sexual response system, and how to clear trauma from the body so you have full access to orgasm, intimacy, and love.

  • Learn advanced Tantric skills to increase sensation and orgasmic energy in the pelvis.

  • Playfully invoke feminine archetypes that unlock erotic energies stored deep in our DNA.


The Sacred Art of Lingam Massage (Cock Worship)

Make him go wild with your erotic skills...

Lingam is the Sanskrit word for penis and loosely translates to "wand of light." In Tantric philosophy, we approach the lingam, or penis, from a place of deep love and respect.

  • Beyond a “hand job”, lingam massage is a practice that honors the masculine, and the interplay that your feminine energy has on his arousal.

  • You’ll learn secret strokes, pressure points, male anatomy, and energy circulation techniques.

Includes a LIVE DEMO. Really.


All the Details

The BLOOM Retreat is 

April 6 & 7, 2019

Sat 10:00am - 9:00pm

Sun 10:00am - 6:00pm


The BLISS Retreat is

June 8 & 9, 2019

Sat 10:00am - 9:00pm

Sun 10:00am - 6:00pm

Retreat Locations: Tara Sanctuary, Topanga Canyon, CA

(Between Los Angeles and Malibu)

Tara Sanctuary is serene temple for the soul! Amid lush acres of old trees, this architectural treasure is nestled a world away, and yet only 30 minutes from Los Angeles and 15 minutes from the beaches of Santa Monica.

Luxuriate in the beautiful gardens with fountains, waterfalls, a labyrinth, sacred statues, fruit trees and pools. 

Onsite rooms are available, both private and shared. Drenched with natural light, wood beam ceilings, a wood burning fireplace and relaxed furnishings, the Retreat House is tastefully decorated, a perfect blend of rustic style and gracious comfort.

**Please inquire for assistance with lodging.  

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The Virtual Group Coaching Sessions are on

8 Wednesdays, 6:00 - 8:00pm Pacific Time:

Wed. April 3

Wed. Apr. 17

Wed, Apr. 24

Wed. May 1

Wed. May 8

Wed. May 15

Wed. May 22

Wed. Jun 12

Your Investment in Pleasure:

Early Bird until March 10:

Six installments of $583

(+3% service fee)

Or one payment of $3495


Standard Price:

Six monthly installments of $633

(+3% service fee)

Or one payment of $3795

*Does not include food or accommodations.  

Onsite lodging is available.

Offsite recommendations provided upon request.

By Application Only

Schedule your consultation call to see if Path to Pleasure is right for you.

You only have to let the soft animal of your body love what it loves
— Mary Oliver
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What Women Say
About the Path to Pleasure...



"The Path to Pleasure was a rich, informative and empowering course.  When I signed up, I really needed to be in a space to support my creativity and inspiration.  Every week felt like I was taking myself to the spa for my soul, connecting deeper with myself and sisterhood. Walking into the room the energy was so positive!  I could let go, relax and rekindle the energy that drives my passion. I'm so grateful I took this course and I can’t wait for the next one!"

Priya D. Mohan

Holistic Vocal Coach, Musician, Performer

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"This course was a deep, wonderful dive into sacred womanhood. And Eva really knows how to make science sexy!  I was so moved by the combination of wisdom, knowledge building, love, and a sweet opening of every woman to discover so much about herself, her womanhood and her strength.  In an extremely short period of time, we all fell in love with each other."

Judy Waters, LMFT

Spiritual Psychotherapist and Love Coach

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"The Path to Pleasure not only transformed my connection to my sexuality, it gave me permission to bring that creative energy source outside of the bedroom and into my daily life. After completing the course with Eva, my ability to manifest money has increased one thousand fold. This course is not only for those looking to reignite their passion, but is also for those who desire to step into the great possibilities of their life as a whole."

Dr. Jamee Kyson

PhD Research Scientist

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"Eva's Pleasure course is a game changer. She has a gift in the way she compiles and presents essential information that every woman needs to know. Even though I thought I had a general understanding of the material before I took the course, I got so much more out of it than I ever imagined! This has been impactful on many levels, ranging from my professional coaching and psychotherapy practice, to my increased ability to receive more pleasure, to my deeper connection with my love relationships. I feel so grateful for this experience."

Michelle Lee Weldon,



"Eva is a master!  I came to this course in the midst of a tragic divorce - I felt like I was dying, I was paralyzed with fear, and I didn't know who I was.  Eva brought me back to life with her deep wisdom, powerful presence, and brilliance in the realms of self-love and pleasure.  I've now reshaped my patterns with men, family, and most importantly - with myself.  I now cherish ME first, and hold myself as a high-value woman!  If you want more pleasure, passion, and confidence, this course is a must!"

Karin Rose Ayala,

RN, BSN, Professional Reiki Master

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"If you want to know and accept your sexuality more deeply, take Eva's course. I thought I already "knew it all," but my knowledge was incomplete without, as Eva says, "knowing and loving your biology!" So true! I now have new, powerful strategies to gently quiet my nervous system and feel more pleasure. There is SO MUCH incredible content here to help us shine as empowered, vibrant women! Eva weaves lots of science and psychology into talks that are deeply felt, poignant, and sprinkled with personal stories. Eva is a stellar teacher!"

Alyse Sweeney,

Writing Teacher

About Eva



I've always been into sex.

I was born with a fascination about how we express love.  It's my mission.

I've been a sex educator, psychotherapist, and academic for over 20 years.  But more than anything...

I consider myself a professional troublemaker.

My story goes like this....

Early in life, I met my first soulmate and we married.  We had an incredible relationship, but nearly a decade into the marriage, I lost my libido.  Gone.  Vanished.  And I couldn't seem to get it back.  I spent a fortune trying to figure out what was wrong with me.  I felt broken and blamed myself.  My husband felt inadequate and frustrated.  I wondered...

Why don't I enjoy intimacy like other people?

What creates desire?

Is this all there is to sex??

Eventually, we divorced.  We couldn't resuscitate our marriage with the tools we had at the time.

It was devastating, but it set me on a path to discover what intimacy really meant for me.  Even though I had all the academic knowledge, something was missing.

As I began to date again, I found myself heartbroken much of the time. To numb the pain, I settled for "junk food sex" and exhausted myself with work.

I didn't know how to let love in.

Sensing there had to be a better way, I walked into a sexual tantra class and literally I wept with joy - I knew I'd found my true path.  I discovered that all along....

The missing ingredient from my sexuality had been the sacred.

I voraciously studied ancient practices in sacred sexuality.  I awakened to the holiness of my body and learned to harness my sexual energy as a source of power.

Becoming so self-fulfilled, I cut my work time in half and traveled the world.  The more my life revolved around pleasure, the more successful I became.

I realized that, first and foremost....

We have to be our own best lovers.

What I offer you now is a marriage between the science of psychology, and the spirituality of sacred sex. 

I've been told I give good permission.

I hope we get to play, dear sister.  You deserve to feel this good.




An acclaimed sexologist, psychotherapist and academic, for over two decades Eva's been following her mission to illuminate the ménage-a-trois of soul, sex, and science. Eva's courses are a robust marriage of the profound and the playful, and as a former professor of neuroscience, she bodaciously reminds us that smart is sexy. She's trained extensively in mind-body therapies such as Somatic Experiencing, Gestalt, Imago Couples Therapy, Hypnotherapy, and Mindfulness, and has had the honor of working with some of the great teachers of our time - including David Deida, Esther Perel, Harville Hendrix, Dan Seigel, and many others.  When she's not teaching, you'll find her making mayhem on a dance floor.  EvaClay.com

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Even though you're busy, I don't want you to waste any more of your precious life feeling disappointed about sex, because...

You come first!



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Frequently Asked Questions

What if I'm not sexually active?
Many women come to this course during a period sexual inactivity. It's a great opportunity to discover and reclaim the unexpressed parts of your mind, body and soul. No sexual activity is necessary to benefit from this course.


Will there be nudity or sexual acts?
No nudity or direct sex acts are planned as part of the program. You will have full choice about what you participate in. But what you do AFTER class? All bets are off ;).


How many Women will be in each weekend?
Each immersion is limited to 20 participants to ensure personal attention.


Is this course appropriate for survivors of sexual trauma?
Yes, absolutely. At least 1 in 3 women have experienced some form of sexual violation. If you have unresolved trauma, 1 year of treatment is advised prior to enrollment, and/or concurrent participation in trauma therapy.  Please contact us if you have further questions or concerns eva@evaclay.com

What if I want to go directly to the Advanced Weekend?
Only former participants in Path to Pleasure may apply to skip the Introductory weekend.  It's an essential foundation.


What if I don't have a partner?
NO PARTNER IS NECESSARY!  Being single is a powerful time to partner with yourself and indulge in self-care. Many single women who do this course report feeling more "magnetic" and "open" to the love they're seeking. Don't be surprised if it starts raining men ;)