A Sexual Awakening for Women

Have you ever thought there MUST be more to sex?

Well, sister, THERE IS.



if you want to feel confident, sexually succulent, and lusciously alive....



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You Deserve...

  • The kind of SEX that you gossip with your girlfriends about.

  • The SELF LOVE that finally puts YOU first in your world.

  • The CONFIDENCE that makes you not give a f$@! about anyone else's opinion of you.

  • The VITALITY that makes you vibrate with passion and aliveness.


sexual energy is a source of power in a woman's body.

and here's the thing:
you don't need a partner.

What if I told you the way to set your life on fire was through pleasure?




This is perfect for you if...


❤ You're going through a transition —motherhood, a break-up/divorce, menopause, a health diagnosis, etc.

❤ You're frustrated with an imbalanced libido - either a low or overactive sex drive.

❤ You're overworked, overstressed, and need more time for self-care

❤ You'd love a new community of strong women.

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Welcome to

The Path to Pleasure

A 7-Week Live In-person Course

Los Angeles, CA

This is a chance to dedicate yourself to the art and science of EROTIC EMPOWERMENT.

It's also a powerful community of women who, like you, are ready to wield their Pussy Powers and transform the world – because when you take a stand for yourself, you take a stand for women everywhere.


This course is based on Eva's:

5 Keys to Feminine Sexual Awakening



  1. Relaxation
  2. Self-Acceptance
  3. Education
  4. Embodiment
  5. Freedom


You Will...

  • SUPERCHARGE your sexual pleasure by understanding the mind-body science of female arousal and orgasm...

  • BREAK THE PATTERN of heartbreak and frustration in relationships by EMPOWERING your choices...

  • CULTIVATE unconditional self-love and confidence so you never have to settle again...

  • START PLEASING YOURSELF FIRST –in the bedroom and beyond– so you can enjoy more vitality, radiance, and power.


My Personal Journey



I've always been into sex.

I was born with a fascination about how we express love.  It's my mission.

I've been a sex educator, psychotherapist, and academic for over 20 years.  But more than anything...

I consider myself a professional troublemaker.

My story goes like this....

Early in life, I met my first soulmate and we married.  We had an incredible relationship, but nearly a decade into the marriage, I lost my libido.  Gone.  Vanished.  And I couldn't seem to get it back.  I spent a fortune trying to figure out what was wrong with me.  I felt broken and blamed myself.  My husband felt inadequate and frustrated.  I wondered...

Why don't I enjoy intimacy like other people?

What creates desire?

Is this all there is to sex??

Eventually, we divorced.  We couldn't resuscitate our marriage with the tools we had at the time.

It was devastating, but it set me on a path to discover what intimacy really meant for me.  Even though I had all the academic knowledge, something was missing.

As I began to date again, I found myself heartbroken much of the time. To numb the pain, I settled for "junk food sex" and exhausted myself with work.

I didn't know how to let myself feel good.

Knowing there had to be a better way of living, I walked into a sexual tantra class and literally I wept with joy - I knew I'd found my true path.  I discovered that all along....

The missing ingredient from my sexuality had been a sense of the sacred.

I voraciously studied ancient practices in sacred sexuality.  I awakened to the holiness of my body and learned to harness my sexual energy as a source of power.

Becoming so self-fulfilled, I cut my work time in half and traveled the world.  The more my life revolved around pleasure, the more successful I became.

I realized that, first and foremost....

We have to be our own best lovers.

What I offer you now is a marriage between the science of psychology, and the spirituality of sacred sex. 

I've been told I give good permission.

I hope we get to play, dear sister.  You deserve to feel this good.


Here's What We'll Cover

You'll be embraced in a soft, soothing, feminine-centric environment.  Each week includes sensual movement, sharing, delicious nibbles, and lots of laughter.


Session 1: Pleasure is Medicine

(and I’m not just talking about sexual pleasure here).

Pleasure is an essential nutrient for women, and without it, we shrivel. With it, we bloom into our full, bodacious, authentic selves. Think of pleasure as a spiritual practice. You will:

  • Discover how your sexual energy is your feminine superpower, and that pleasure is a neuro-cocktail that programs your brain for confidence.

  • Learn the practice of "Taking in the Good" –and how savoring simple joys re-patterns your nervous system and your [sex] life.


Session 2: Radical Self Acceptance

Be Your Own Best Lover.

Women develop self-confidence completely differently than men, and when we strive for achievement in a masculine way we deplete our sense-of-self. Let's build an unshakable core based on feminine power. You Will:

  • Drown out other voices of the "tribe" that control and dictate feminine sexuality (it’s bullhonkey!)

  • Learn the psycho-biological science of how our sexual selves develop, and how to adjust it.

  • Practice methods that put YOU in authority of YOUR pleasure.

  • Cultivate an unconditional self-love that dissolves the inner critic and catapults your sexual radiance.


Session 3: The End of Self Sabotage

Get Out of Your Own Way and Let the Pleasure Flow!

Do you ever hold back your own power? Pick the wrong guy over and over? Do you have a secret vice that keeps you in a shame-spiral? (ahem –we all do!) By understanding that the forces holding you back are just evolutionary mechanisms trying to keep you safe, you can gently override them (by LOVING them). You will:

  • Learn to stop blocking your own pleasure and receive what you deeply desire.

  • Stop choosing men who don’t adore you, and upgrade the quality of your relationships by making your pleasure a priority.

  • Learn how to let go of secret vices that keep you in a shame-spiral and undermine your power.


Session 4: Pussy Power

Including Special Guest Sierra Sullivan

A woman connected to her pussy is an unstoppable force.

It's time to reclaim a lost and shamed part of your intrinsic femininity. Above and beyond more pleasurable sex, connection with your pussy means more power and confidence! You will:

  • Learn the science of the brain-vagina connection, the anatomy of sexual arousal ("The Pleasure Cocktail") and how ecstasy is wired into the female nervous system.

  • Kindle a profound connection to your pussy so you can call upon her guidance and wisdom more easily.

  • Discover the hidden symbols and divine feminine presence within your sacred flower.

  • Heal the perception of your pussy and cultivate an unconditional love for your body.

Sierra Sullivan will facilitate TEMPLE OF THE SACRED CHALICE, a Worship Ceremony for Women Ready to Claim the Power and Divinity of their Pussy.


Sierra J. Sullivan is an Empowerment Mentor, Ritualist, Officiant & Sacred Journey Guide for women & couples who seek more truth and alignment in life, love and relationship.


Session 5: Desire and The Sexual Voice

You Have Full Permission to Want What You Want.

We’ll dispel the BIG MYTHS around desire and come to see yearning as a form of prayer. Desire is our compass, our internal GPS, and the first step in attracting all good things. You will:

  • Reclaim your right to sexual desire if the flame has dimmed through menopause, childbirth, trauma, a health crisis, or any other reason.

  • Attune to your own erotic desires, and greet the mind/body/spirit systems uniquely within you that regulate it.

  • Learn the Tantric method of Sex Magic to manifest your deepest desires and get turned on about your goals.

Session 6: The Sacred Slut

Reclaiming Your Divine Right to Pleasure.

We'll playfully invoke feminine archetypes that unlock erotic energies stored deep in our DNA. What do Mae West, Aphrodite, and Mary Magdalene have to teach us about sexual power? You Will:

  • Be nurtured and uplifted by our sisterhood as you dispel guilt and step fully into your unapologetic, bodacious, badass self.

  • Laugh your ass off enacting rowdy archtypes and alter-egos.

  • Gently open your sexual repertoire to a more authentic, balanced, self-honoring expression.


Session 7:
The Sacred Art of Lingam Massage (Cock Worship) and Tantric Adoration Ritual

Become an expert with the male body, then get worshipped like you deserve!

Lingam is the Sanskrit word for penis and loosely translates to "wand of light." In Tantric philosophy, we approach the lingam, or penis, from a place of deep love and respect.

  • Beyond a “hand job”, lingam massage is a practice that honors the masculine, and the interplay that your feminine energy has on his arousal.

  • We do this practice to not only please him, but to awaken his masculine integrity and spiritual essence.

  • You’ll learn secret strokes, pressure points, male anatomy, and energy circulation techniques.

Includes a LIVE DEMO

After our lesson, a group of carefully selected men will ritualistically serve you with chocolate, sensual delights, massage, and adoring words. You’ll delight in this lavish and decadent worship (and get used to being worshipped, k?).

The Adoration Ritual respects YOUR individual boundaries. So you call the shots, lady.



What women are saying
about the path to pleasure...

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"The Path to Pleasure was a total awakening. To understand the real scientific truths behind how my own body operates and what it needs in order to be truly unleashed was eye-opening, to say the very least. I'd highly recommend Eva's course to any woman who wants to really connect with her body and understand it on a fundamental level.  This course will uplift, excite, and set your life on fire!"

Lauren Brett

Event Manager for Wellness Communities

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"This course was a deep, wonderful dive into sacred womanhood. And Eva really knows how to make science sexy!  I was so moved by the combination of wisdom, knowledge building, love, and a sweet opening of every woman to discover so much about herself, her womanhood and her strength.  In an extremely short period of time, we all fell in love with each other."

Judy Waters, LMFT

Spiritual Psychotherapist and Love Coach

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"The Path to Pleasure not only transformed my connection to my sexuality, it gave me permission to bring that creative energy source outside of the bedroom and into my daily life. After completing the course with Eva, my ability to manifest money has increased one thousand fold. This course is not only for those looking to reignite their passion, but is also for those who desire to step into the great possibilities of their life as a whole."

Dr. Jamee Kyson

PhD Research Scientist

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"Eva's Pleasure course is a game changer. She has a gift in the way she compiles and presents essential information that every woman needs to know. Even though I thought I had a general understanding of the material before I took the course, I got so much more out of it than I ever imagined! This has been impactful on many levels, ranging from my professional coaching and psychotherapy practice, to my increased ability to receive more pleasure, to my deeper connection with my love relationships. I feel so grateful for this experience."

Michelle Lee Weldon,



"Eva is a master!  I came to this course in the midst of a tragic divorce - I felt like I was dying, I was paralyzed with fear, and I didn't know who I was.  Eva brought me back to life with her deep wisdom, powerful presence, and brilliance in the realms of self-love and pleasure.  I've now reshaped my patterns with men, family, and most importantly - with myself.  I now cherish ME first, and hold myself as a high-value woman!  If you want more pleasure, passion, and confidence, this course is a must!"

Karin Rose Ayala,

RN, BSN, Professional Reiki Master

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"If you want to know and accept your sexuality more deeply, take Eva's course. I thought I already "knew it all," but my knowledge was incomplete without, as Eva says, "knowing and loving your biology!" So true! I now have new, powerful strategies to gently quiet my nervous system and feel more pleasure. There is SO MUCH incredible content here to help us shine as empowered, vibrant women! Eva weaves lots of science and psychology into talks that are deeply felt, poignant, and sprinkled with personal stories. Eva is a stellar teacher!"

Alyse Sweeney,

Writing Teacher

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"One of my greatest take-aways from this course (and there are many) is learning just how much our hormones and brain chemistry shape who we are. Since I've learned this, I've been able to gain more mastery around my emotions, which is very exciting and empowering. Eva is a master at creating a safe space to learn, express, and share within this wonderful community of women, so that you're able to integrate this deeply powerful wisdom into your life. I'm so grateful to have found her!"

Becca Schack,

Professional Musician / Performer

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"Eva connects women to their aliveness and their desires on every level of our lives, so that we can re-discover the layers of our power and inner confidence. I'd recommend her fascinating, unique approach through the science of your brains to help discover how to feel more pleasure and open yourself up to joy and love."

Darden Reinowski,

Professional Writer


"The Path to Pleasure was a rich, informative and empowering course.  When I signed up, I really needed to be in a space to support my creativity and inspiration.  Every week felt like I was taking myself to the spa for my soul, connecting deeper with myself and sisterhood. Walking into the room the energy was so positive!  I could let go, relax and rekindle the energy that drives my passion. I'm so grateful I took this course and I can’t wait for the next one!"

Priya D. Mohan

Holistic Vocal Coach, Musician, Performer

You only have to let the soft animal of your body love what it loves
— Mary Oliver
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Official Bio




An acclaimed psychotherapist, sexuality expert and academic, for over two decades Eva's been following her mission to illuminate the ménage-a-trois of soul, sex, and science. As a professor of neuroscience, she bodaciously reminds us that smart is sexy. Eva's courses are a robust marriage of the profound and the playful, and she's trained extensively in mind-body therapies such as Somatic Experiencing, Gestalt, Imago Couples Therapy, Hypnotherapy, and Mindfulness, and has had the honor of working with some of the great teachers of our time - David Deida, Esther Perel, Harville Hendrix, Dan Seigel, and many others. EvaClay.com


What Feminine Leaders are Saying...

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"Eva exudes embodied confidence, and as a leader, she brings a unique and potent blend of neuroscience, Tantra, and sex education combined with her rich life experience. I have such a big YES for all that she is!"

Sofiah Thom,

Founder of Temple Body Arts™

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"A heart in full bloom —exuding intelligence that is not only beautiful, but inspiring. Eva is a woman who leads by example, who loves without apology. Learn about yourself and all that is possible for you, side-by-side with Eva— and become who you know you can be."

dawn cartwright,

Director Chandra Bindu Tantra Institute

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"Eva stands for your liberated self-expression, sensual pleasures, and sexual empowerment. She bridges the intelligent and the emotional expression of the body so that you can come to know yourself in wholeness and power. She's a one-of-a-kind master guide and teacher."

tabby biddle,

Women's Leadership Coach & Leadership Ambassador with 'Take the Lead'

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7 thursdays, 7:30 - 10:00 pm

Next course begins

Sept. 21, 2017


Location: Santa Monica -OR- Your Laptop


Until September 15:

3 payments of $297


Standard Tuition after September 15:

3 payments of $397



Live-Stream Option

1 payment of $595

  • Join live or recorded
  • Get virtual practice partners for homework and sharing
  • Gain access to the online interactive community



frequently asked questions

What if I'm not sexually active?
Many women come to this course during a period sexual inactivity. It's a great opportunity to discover and reclaim the unexpressed parts of your mind, body and soul. No sexual activity is necessary to benefit from this course.

Will there be nudity or sexual acts?
No nudity or direct sex acts are planned as part of the program. You will have full choice about what you participate in. But what you do AFTER class? All bets are off ;).


How many Women will be in the course?
The course is limited to 25 participants to ensure personal attention.


Is this course appropriate for survivors of sexual trauma?
Yes, absolutely. At least 1 in 3 women have experienced some form of sexual violation. This course is specifically designed to provide a trauma-sensitive environment. Please contact us if you have further questions or concerns eva@evaclay.com

What if I miss a week?
Not to worry —all lecture portions of the course are recorded and sent upon request.


What if I don't have a partner?
NO PARTNER IS NECESSARY!  Being single is a powerful time to partner with yourself and indulge in self-care. Many single women who do this course report feeling more "magnetic" and "open" to the love they're seeking. Don't be surprised if it starts raining men ;)


Even though you're busy, I don't want you to waste any more of your precious life feeling stressed and disappointed about sex.

Discover how it feels to be erotically empowered, and get these life-long tools, because...

You deserve to live a life of


Next course begins

Sept. 21, 2017

7 Thursdays in Santa Monica -OR - Your Laptop

7:30pm - 10:00 pm



To September 15:

3 payments of $297


Standard Tuition after September 15:

3 payments of $397



Live-Stream Option

1 payment of $595

  • Join live or recorded
  • Get virtual practice partners for homework and sharing
  • Gain access to the interactive online community


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