A Sexual Awakening for Women

Have you ever thought there must be more to sex?

Well, sister, THERE IS.



if you want to feel confident, sexually succulent, and lusciously alive....



Your Pleasure is Important!

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You Deserve To...

  • UNLEASH your sexual pleasure by learning the secrets of female arousal and orgasm.

  • BREAK THE PATTERN of heartbreak and disappointment by making choices from your deep, unfailing feminine intelligence.

  • INVOKE unconditional self-love and confidence so you can receive all the pleasure available to you (it's infinite!).

  • START PLEASING YOURSELF FIRST –in the bedroom and beyond– so you can enjoy more vitality, radiance, and power.


sexual energy is a source of power in a woman's body.

and here's the thing:
you don't need a partner.



This is perfect for you if...

❤ You're going through a transition —motherhood, a break-up/divorce, menopause, a health diagnosis, etc.

❤ You're frustrated with the sex you're having or NOT having.

❤ You're overworked, overstressed, and need more time for self-care

❤ You'd love a new community of strong women.

You are a beautiful, powerful, erotic creature.

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start your Path to Pleasure with the introductory Weekend:


Who are you really as a sexual woman? 

Because your relationship with sex is based on your relationship with Self, this weekend is a welcoming home to your true, indwelling erotic nature.  

You already have glimpses of your sexual self, as she's deep inside your heart.  At once soft and fierce, she waits to be fully freed...



Pleasure is an essential nutrient for women, and without it, we shrivel. With it, we bloom into our full, bodacious, authentic selves. Think of pleasure as a spiritual practice. You will:

  • Discover how your sexual energy is your feminine superpower, and that pleasure is a neuro-cocktail that programs your brain for confidence.

  • Learn the practice of "Taking in the Good" –and how savoring simple joys re-patterns your nervous system and your [sex] life.

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We'll cover...

Women develop self-confidence completely differently than men, and when we strive for achievement in a masculine way we deplete our sense-of-self. Let's build an unshakable core based on feminine power. You Will:

  • Drown out other voices of the "tribe" that control and dictate feminine sexuality (it’s bullhonkey!)

  • Learn the psycho-biological science of how our sexual selves develop, and how to adjust it.

  • Practice methods that put YOU in authority of YOUR pleasure.

  • Cultivate an unconditional self-love that dissolves the inner critic and catapults your sexual radiance.


our Next bloom immersion is... 

March 2-5, 2018

Location: Santa Monica, CA (Los Angeles)

Santa Monica is an ideal beach retreat for transformation, relaxation, and a taste of excitement.

Immersions are just a few blocks from Santa Monica beaches, pier, and world-class shops and restaurants.

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*Does not include food or lodging.  Recommendations provided upon request.


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Path to Pleasure advanced Weekend:




This weekend is a straight up pleasure party, where YOU heal, celebrate, and claim your divine right to sexual ecstasy.

Get really good at receiving adoration from real, live men; open your heart to more love, and unleash the wild, erotic creature inside you. 

PRE-REQUISITE:  Path to Pleasure Introductory Retreat "BLOOM", or a former Path to Pleasure program.



You Have Full Permission to Want What You Want.

We’ll dispel the BIG MYTHS around desire and come to see yearning as a form of prayer. Desire is our compass, our internal GPS, and the first step in attracting all good things. You will:

  • Reclaim your right to sexual desire if the flame has dimmed through menopause, childbirth, trauma, a health crisis, or any other reason.

  • Attune to your own erotic desires, and greet the mind/body/spirit systems uniquely within you that regulate it.

  • Learn the Tantric method of Sex Magic to manifest your deepest desires and get turned on about your goals.

We'll Cover...

Reclaiming Your Divine Right to Pleasure.

We'll playfully invoke feminine archetypes that unlock erotic energies stored deep in our DNA.

After our lesson, a group of carefully selected men will serve you with chocolate, sensual delights, massage, and adoring words. You’ll delight in this lavish and decadent worship (and get used to it, k?).

The Adoration Ritual respects YOUR individual boundaries. So you call the shots, lady.

You Will:

  • Be nurtured and uplifted by our sisterhood as you dispel guilt and step fully into your unapologetic, bodacious, badass self.

  • Laugh your ass off enacting rowdy archtypes and alter-egos.

  • Gently open your sexual repertoire to a more authentic, balanced, self-honoring expression.


The Sacred Art of Lingam Massage (Cock Worship)

Make him go wild with your erotic skills...

Lingam is the Sanskrit word for penis and loosely translates to "wand of light." In Tantric philosophy, we approach the lingam, or penis, from a place of deep love and respect.

  • Beyond a “hand job”, lingam massage is a practice that honors the masculine, and the interplay that your feminine energy has on his arousal.

  • You’ll learn secret strokes, pressure points, male anatomy, and energy circulation techniques.

Includes a LIVE DEMO. Really.


our Next bliss retreat is...

June 22-24, 2018

Location: Santa Monica, CA (Los Angeles)



* Payment plan available.  Does not include food or lodging.  Recommendations provided upon request

PRE-REQUISITE:  Path to Pleasure Introductory weekend "BLOOM", or a former Path to Pleasure program.


Save and Enroll in Both

Introductory "BLOOM" Immersion

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Advanced "BLISS" Immersion

Save $242



 want a total sexual revolution? 

Join us for...

Embodied Ecstasy

a 6 month coaching circle

Embodied Ecstasy includes both BLOOM and BLISS weekends, and so much more...

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You only have to let the soft animal of your body love what it loves
— Mary Oliver
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What women are saying
about the path to pleasure...


"The Path to Pleasure was a rich, informative and empowering course.  When I signed up, I really needed to be in a space to support my creativity and inspiration.  Every week felt like I was taking myself to the spa for my soul, connecting deeper with myself and sisterhood. Walking into the room the energy was so positive!  I could let go, relax and rekindle the energy that drives my passion. I'm so grateful I took this course and I can’t wait for the next one!"

Priya D. Mohan

Holistic Vocal Coach, Musician, Performer

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"This course was a deep, wonderful dive into sacred womanhood. And Eva really knows how to make science sexy!  I was so moved by the combination of wisdom, knowledge building, love, and a sweet opening of every woman to discover so much about herself, her womanhood and her strength.  In an extremely short period of time, we all fell in love with each other."

Judy Waters, LMFT

Spiritual Psychotherapist and Love Coach

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"The Path to Pleasure not only transformed my connection to my sexuality, it gave me permission to bring that creative energy source outside of the bedroom and into my daily life. After completing the course with Eva, my ability to manifest money has increased one thousand fold. This course is not only for those looking to reignite their passion, but is also for those who desire to step into the great possibilities of their life as a whole."

Dr. Jamee Kyson

PhD Research Scientist

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"Eva's Pleasure course is a game changer. She has a gift in the way she compiles and presents essential information that every woman needs to know. Even though I thought I had a general understanding of the material before I took the course, I got so much more out of it than I ever imagined! This has been impactful on many levels, ranging from my professional coaching and psychotherapy practice, to my increased ability to receive more pleasure, to my deeper connection with my love relationships. I feel so grateful for this experience."

Michelle Lee Weldon,



"Eva is a master!  I came to this course in the midst of a tragic divorce - I felt like I was dying, I was paralyzed with fear, and I didn't know who I was.  Eva brought me back to life with her deep wisdom, powerful presence, and brilliance in the realms of self-love and pleasure.  I've now reshaped my patterns with men, family, and most importantly - with myself.  I now cherish ME first, and hold myself as a high-value woman!  If you want more pleasure, passion, and confidence, this course is a must!"

Karin Rose Ayala,

RN, BSN, Professional Reiki Master

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"If you want to know and accept your sexuality more deeply, take Eva's course. I thought I already "knew it all," but my knowledge was incomplete without, as Eva says, "knowing and loving your biology!" So true! I now have new, powerful strategies to gently quiet my nervous system and feel more pleasure. There is SO MUCH incredible content here to help us shine as empowered, vibrant women! Eva weaves lots of science and psychology into talks that are deeply felt, poignant, and sprinkled with personal stories. Eva is a stellar teacher!"

Alyse Sweeney,

Writing Teacher

About Eva



I've always been into sex.

I was born with a fascination about how we express love.  It's my mission.

I've been a sex educator, psychotherapist, and academic for over 20 years.  But more than anything...

I consider myself a professional troublemaker.

My story goes like this....

Early in life, I met my first soulmate and we married.  We had an incredible relationship, but nearly a decade into the marriage, I lost my libido.  Gone.  Vanished.  And I couldn't seem to get it back.  I spent a fortune trying to figure out what was wrong with me.  I felt broken and blamed myself.  My husband felt inadequate and frustrated.  I wondered...

Why don't I enjoy intimacy like other people?

What creates desire?

Is this all there is to sex??

Eventually, we divorced.  We couldn't resuscitate our marriage with the tools we had at the time.

It was devastating, but it set me on a path to discover what intimacy really meant for me.  Even though I had all the academic knowledge, something was missing.

As I began to date again, I found myself heartbroken much of the time. To numb the pain, I settled for "junk food sex" and exhausted myself with work.

I didn't know how to let love in.

Sensing there had to be a better way, I walked into a sexual tantra class and literally I wept with joy - I knew I'd found my true path.  I discovered that all along....

The missing ingredient from my sexuality had been the sacred.

I voraciously studied ancient practices in sacred sexuality.  I awakened to the holiness of my body and learned to harness my sexual energy as a source of power.

Becoming so self-fulfilled, I cut my work time in half and traveled the world.  The more my life revolved around pleasure, the more successful I became.

I realized that, first and foremost....

We have to be our own best lovers.

What I offer you now is a marriage between the science of psychology, and the spirituality of sacred sex. 

I've been told I give good permission.

I hope we get to play, dear sister.  You deserve to feel this good.




An acclaimed sexologist, psychotherapist and academic, for over two decades Eva's been following her mission to illuminate the ménage-a-trois of soul, sex, and science. Eva's courses are a robust marriage of the profound and the playful, and as a former professor of neuroscience, she bodaciously reminds us that smart is sexy. She's trained extensively in mind-body therapies such as Somatic Experiencing, Gestalt, Imago Couples Therapy, Hypnotherapy, and Mindfulness, and has had the honor of working with some of the great teachers of our time - including David Deida, Esther Perel, Harville Hendrix, Dan Seigel, and many others.  When she's not teaching, you'll find her making mayhem on a dance floor.  EvaClay.com

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Even though you're busy, I don't want you to waste any more of your precious life feeling stressed and disappointed, because...

Your pleasure comes first!

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want a sexual revolution?

Embodied Ecstasy


frequently asked questions

What if I'm not sexually active?
Many women come to this course during a period sexual inactivity. It's a great opportunity to discover and reclaim the unexpressed parts of your mind, body and soul. No sexual activity is necessary to benefit from this course.


Will there be nudity or sexual acts?
No nudity or direct sex acts are planned as part of the program. You will have full choice about what you participate in. But what you do AFTER class? All bets are off ;).


How many Women will be in each weekend?
Each immersion is limited to 25 participants to ensure personal attention.


Is this course appropriate for survivors of sexual trauma?
Yes, absolutely. At least 1 in 3 women have experienced some form of sexual violation. If you have unresolved trauma, 1 year of treatment is advised prior to enrollment, and/or concurrent participation in trauma therapy.  Please contact us if you have further questions or concerns eva@evaclay.com

What if I want to go directly to the Advanced Weekend?
Only former participants in Path to Pleasure may apply to skip the Introductory weekend.  It's an essential foundation.


What if I don't have a partner?
NO PARTNER IS NECESSARY!  Being single is a powerful time to partner with yourself and indulge in self-care. Many single women who do this course report feeling more "magnetic" and "open" to the love they're seeking. Don't be surprised if it starts raining men ;)