A Sexual Awakening for Women

Have you ever thought there must be more to sex?

Well, sister, THERE IS.



If you want to feel more confident, turned-on, and sexually succulent....



Your Pleasure is a Priority!

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The Path to Pleasure is a
3- Month Journey of Sexual Awakening


This is a proven, step-by-step method to re-wire your sexual mindset and awaken your body’s capacity for pleasure.

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Vital sexuality is a source of power, confidence and wellness in a woman's body.


you don't need a partner to ignite it.


This is perfect for you if...


❤ You want to break out of limiting sexual patterns and feel more desire, orgasm, and spiritual connection to your body.

❤ You're going through a transition — such as motherhood, a break-up, or menopause, and you’re ready to redefine what sex means for you.

❤ You're frustrated with the sex you're having or NOT having.

❤ You'd love a new sisterhood of powerful women.


You are a beautiful, powerful, erotic Being.


The Path to Pleasure Includes…


  • Ten Live & Interactive Group Coaching Sessions via Video, taught by Eva and her guest teachers, to walk you through each step of the Sexual Awakening Process.

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  • A Private Virtual “Deep Dive” healing session with Eva (a $350 value).

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  • A Confidential Discussion Group, moderated by Eva and the Path to Pleasure staff of experts. Ask any question, anytime, and get support.

  • A Sister and Small Group "Pleasure Pod" for Accountability and Connection.


  • Finally, All the Sexual Ecstasy You've Been Missing.

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and Guest Teachers:

The Modules are live, interactive and recorded for replay.

10 Wednesdays, 6:00 - 8:00pm Pacific Time

Dates: April 17 - Jun 26

1) Your Succulent New Sexual Story.

Release subconscious scripts such as guilt, shame and embarrassment and enjoy a NEW pleasure-full mindset around sex.

2) Love the Skin You’re In for More Sexual Turn-On.

When you change the way you perceive your body, your experience of being IN it changes, too. You’ll learn the tools to literally shift your lens and claim bodacious confidence.

3) Awaken the Pleasure Body.

Pelvic Health and Secret Sexual Anatomy with Pamela Samuelson, Sexological Bodyworker, Pelvic Health Specialist, Activist, and Researcher.

4) Unlock Desire - Hormones and Libido.

With Dr. Cari Schafer, DACM, Herbalist, and Naturopathic Healthcare Expert.

5) Orgasmic Ecstasy.

Learn how to unlock and “wire” various types of orgasm such as vaginal, cervical, full-body, and more.

6) Become Your Own Best Lover.

Learn explosive Self-Pleasure Techniques so orgasm is at your command. Learn secret strokes, spots, and toys to reap the rewards of pleasure. With Guest Teacher Melissa Mango, Sexological Bodyworker, Somatic Sex Educator, Clinical Hypnotherapist.

7) Tantra and Kundalini Yoga Practices.

Learn the spiritual teachings and practices that work with the energy body and cultivate sexual energy.  

8) Confident Sexual Communication.

Learn how to artfully assert your needs, speak your truth with eloquence, and get it just how you like it.


Your Investment in Pleasure:


Four monthly installments of $399

Or one payment of $1497



Schedule a consultation call to see if Path to Pleasure is right for you.


Optional Add-On Weekend Retreat


This is a luscious pleasure party, where you'll relax into gorgeous nature with your sisters from Path to Pleasure, learn sacred sexual skills, and explore your naughty edges.

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What If You Had NO LIMITS to your expression?

Rose petals lead you into the temple as the scent of lavender and chocolate permeate the room. You instantly melt into this luscious place.

Electric anticipation fills the air as you KNOW that what's ahead will be deep and life-changing.

Pleasure-full movement, wild abandon, and profound healing in the arms of nature.

A glimpse of the wild soul inside you, finally freed….


What We Cover...

Reclaiming The Sacred Whore Archetype.

  • Be nurtured and uplifted by our sisterhood bond as you dispel guilt and step fully into your erotic self.

  • Deepen your embodied experience of clearing wounds, trauma and heartbreak from your body so you have full access to orgasm and love.

  • Practice advanced Tantric skills to increase orgasmic energy in the pelvis.

  • Discover your dormant erotic archetypes and invoke them in sacred ritual. These archetypes are energies locked deep inside your DNA.


The Sacred Art of Lingam Massage (Cock Worship)

Make him go wild with your erotic skills...

Lingam is the Sanskrit word for penis and loosely translates to "wand of light." In Tantric philosophy, we approach the lingam, or penis, from a place of deep love and respect.

  • Beyond a “hand job”, lingam massage is a practice that honors the masculine, and the interplay that your feminine energy has on his arousal.

  • You’ll learn secret strokes, pressure points, male anatomy, and energy circulation techniques.

The BLISS Retreat is

June 21 - 23, 2019

Fri June 21, 6:30pm - 9:30pm

Sat June 22, 10:00am - 9:00pm

Sun June 23, 10:00am - 6:00pm

Investment for BLISS Retreat:


Location: Tara Sanctuary, Topanga Canyon, CA

(Between Los Angeles and Malibu)

Tara Sanctuary is serene temple for the soul. Amid lush acres of old trees, this architectural treasure is nestled a world away, and yet only 30 minutes from Los Angeles and 15 minutes from the beaches of Santa Monica.

Luxuriate in the beautiful gardens with fountains, waterfalls, a labyrinth, sacred statues, fruit trees and pools. 

Onsite rooms are available, both private and shared. Drenched with natural light, wood beam ceilings, a wood burning fireplace and relaxed furnishings, the Retreat House is tastefully decorated, a perfect blend of rustic style and gracious comfort.

**Please inquire for onsite lodging.  


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You only have to let the soft animal of your body love what it loves
— Mary Oliver
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What Women Say
About This Work...



"The Path to Pleasure was a rich, informative and empowering course.  When I signed up, I really needed to be in a space to support my creativity and inspiration.  Every week felt like I was taking myself to the spa for my soul, connecting deeper with myself and sisterhood. Walking into the room the energy was so positive!  I could let go, relax and rekindle the energy that drives my passion. I'm so grateful I took this course and I can’t wait for the next one!"

Priya D. Mohan

Holistic Vocal Coach, Musician, Performer

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"This course was a deep, wonderful dive into sacred womanhood. And Eva really knows how to make science sexy!  I was so moved by the combination of wisdom, knowledge building, love, and a sweet opening of every woman to discover so much about herself, her womanhood and her strength.  In an extremely short period of time, we all fell in love with each other."

Judy Waters, LMFT

Spiritual Psychotherapist and Love Coach

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"The Path to Pleasure not only transformed my connection to my sexuality, it gave me permission to bring that creative energy source outside of the bedroom and into my daily life. After completing the course with Eva, my ability to manifest money has increased one thousand fold. This course is not only for those looking to reignite their passion, but is also for those who desire to step into the great possibilities of their life as a whole."

Dr. Jamee Kyson

PhD Research Scientist

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"Eva's Pleasure course is a game changer. She has a gift in the way she compiles and presents essential information that every woman needs to know. Even though I thought I had a general understanding of the material before I took the course, I got so much more out of it than I ever imagined! This has been impactful on many levels, ranging from my professional coaching and psychotherapy practice, to my increased ability to receive more pleasure, to my deeper connection with my love relationships. I feel so grateful for this experience."

Michelle Lee Weldon,



"Eva is a master!  I came to this course in the midst of a tragic divorce - I felt like I was dying, I was paralyzed with fear, and I didn't know who I was.  Eva brought me back to life with her deep wisdom, powerful presence, and brilliance in the realms of self-love and pleasure.  I've now reshaped my patterns with men, family, and most importantly - with myself.  I now cherish ME first, and hold myself as a high-value woman!  If you want more pleasure, passion, and confidence, this course is a must!"

Karin Rose Ayala,

RN, BSN, Professional Reiki Master

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"If you want to know and accept your sexuality more deeply, take Eva's course. I thought I already "knew it all," but my knowledge was incomplete without, as Eva says, "knowing and loving your biology!" So true! I now have new, powerful strategies to gently quiet my nervous system and feel more pleasure. There is SO MUCH incredible content here to help us shine as empowered, vibrant women! Eva weaves lots of science and psychology into talks that are deeply felt, poignant, and sprinkled with personal stories. Eva is a stellar teacher!"

Alyse Sweeney,

Writing Teacher

About Eva



I've always been into sex.

I was born with a fascination about how we express love.  It's my mission.

I've been a sex educator, psychotherapist, and academic for over 20 years.  But more than anything...

I consider myself a professional troublemaker.

My story goes like this....

Early in life, I met my first soulmate and we married.  We had an incredible relationship, but nearly a decade into the marriage, I lost my libido.  Gone.  Vanished.  And I couldn't seem to get it back.  I spent a fortune trying to figure out what was wrong with me.  I felt broken and blamed myself.  My husband felt frustrated.  I wondered...

Why don't I enjoy intimacy like other people?

What creates desire?

Is this all there is to sex??

Eventually, we divorced.  We couldn't resuscitate our marriage with the tools we had at the time.

It was devastating, but it set me on a path to discover what intimacy really meant for me.  Even though I had all the academic knowledge, something was missing.

As I began to date again, I found myself heartbroken much of the time. To numb the pain, I settled for "junk food sex" and exhausted myself with work.

I didn't know how to let love in.

Sensing there had to be a better way, I walked into a sexual tantra class and literally I wept with joy - I knew I'd found my true path.  I discovered that all along....

The missing ingredient from my sexuality had been the sacred.

I voraciously studied ancient practices in sacred sexuality.  I awakened to the holiness of my body and learned to harness my sexual energy as a source of power.

Becoming so self-fulfilled, I cut my work time in half and traveled the world.  The more my life revolved around pleasure, the more successful I became.

I realized that, first and foremost....

We have to be our own best lovers.

What I offer you now is a marriage between the science of psychology, and the spirituality of sacred sex. 

I've been told I give good permission.

I hope we get to play, dear sister.  You deserve to feel this good.




An acclaimed sexologist, psychotherapist and academic, for over two decades Eva's been following her mission to illuminate the ménage-a-trois of soul, sex, and science. Eva's courses are a robust marriage of the profound and the playful, and as a former professor of neuroscience, she bodaciously reminds us that smart is sexy. She's trained extensively in mind-body therapies such as Somatic Experiencing, Gestalt, Imago Couples Therapy, Hypnotherapy, and Mindfulness, and has had the honor of working with some of the great teachers of our time - including David Deida, Esther Perel, Harville Hendrix, Dan Seigel, and many others.  When she's not teaching, you'll find her making mayhem on a dance floor.  EvaClay.com

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Even though you're busy, I don't want you to waste any more of your precious life feeling disappointed about sex, because...

You come first!


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Frequently Asked Questions

What if I'm not sexually active?
Many women come to this course during a period sexual inactivity. It's a great opportunity to discover and reclaim the unexpressed parts of your mind, body and soul. No sexual activity is necessary to benefit from this course.


Will there be nudity or sexual acts?
No nudity or direct sex acts are planned as part of the program. You will have full choice about what you participate in. But what you do AFTER class? All bets are off ;).


How many Women will be in each weekend?
Each immersion is limited to 20 participants to ensure personal attention.


Is this course appropriate for survivors of sexual trauma?
Yes, absolutely. At least 1 in 3 women have experienced some form of sexual violation. If you have unresolved trauma, 1 year of treatment is advised prior to enrollment, and/or concurrent participation in trauma therapy.  Please contact us if you have further questions or concerns eva@evaclay.com

What if I want to go directly to the Advanced Weekend?
Only former participants in Path to Pleasure may apply to skip the Introductory weekend.  It's an essential foundation.


What if I don't have a partner?
NO PARTNER IS NECESSARY!  Being single is a powerful time to partner with yourself and indulge in self-care. Many single women who do this course report feeling more "magnetic" and "open" to the love they're seeking. Don't be surprised if it starts raining men ;)