A Sexual Awakening for Women

Have you ever thought, "There MUST be more to sex!"

Well, sister, THERE IS.



if you want to feel confident, sexually succulent, and lusciously alive....



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You Deserve...

  • The kind of SEX that you gossip with your girlfriends about.

  • The SELF LOVE that finally puts YOU first in your world.

  • The CONFIDENCE that makes you not give a f$@! about anyone else's opinion of you.

  • The VITALITY that makes you vibrate with passion and aliveness.


sexual energy is the source of a woman's power

and here's the thing:
you don't need a partner.

What if I told you the way to set your life on fire is through pleasure, all for YOU?



This is perfect for you if...


❤ You're going through a transition —motherhood, a break-up/divorce, menopause, a health diagnosis, etc.

❤ You're frustrated with am imbalanced libido - either a low or overactive sex drive.

❤ You're overworked, overstressed, and need more time for self-care

❤ You'd love a new community of strong women.

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Welcome to

The Pleasure Path

A 7-Week Live In-person Course

Los Angeles, CA

This is a chance to dedicate yourself to the art and science of EROTIC EMPOWERMENT.

It's also a powerful community of women who, like you, are ready to wield their Pussy Powers and transform the world – because when you take a stand for yourself, you take a stand for women everywhere.


This course is based on Eva's:

5 Pillars of Feminine Sexual Awakening



  1. Relaxation
  2. Self-Acceptance
  3. Education
  4. Embodiment
  5. Freedom


You Will...

  • SUPERCHARGE your sexual pleasure by understanding the mind-body science of female arousal and orgasm...

  • BREAK THE PATTERN of heartbreak and frustration in romantic relationships...

  • CULTIVATE unconditional self-love and confidence so you never have to settle again...

  • START PLEASING YOURSELF FIRST –in the bedroom and beyond– so you can enjoy more vitality, radiance, and power.


My Personal Journey



I've always been into sex.

I was born with a fascination about how we express love.  It's my mission.

I've been a sex educator, psychotherapist, and academic for over 20 years.  But more than anything...

I consider myself a professional troublemaker.

My story goes like this....

At age 30, I met my first soulmate and we married.  We had an incredible relationship, but nearly a decade into the marriage, I lost my libido.  Gone.  Vanished.  And I couldn't seem to get it back.  I spent a fortune trying to figure out what was wrong with me.  I felt broken and blamed myself.  My husband felt inadequate and frustrated.  I wondered...

Why don't I enjoy intimacy like other people?

What creates desire?

Is this all there is to sex??

Eventually, we divorced.  We couldn't resuscitate our marriage with the tools we had at the time.

It was devastating, but it set me on a path to discover what intimacy really meant for me.  Even though I had all the academic knowledge, something was missing.

As I began to date again, I found myself heartbroken much of the time. To numb the pain, I settled for "junk food sex" and exhausted myself with work.

I didn't know how to let myself feel good.

Knowing there had to be a better way of living, I walked into a sexual tantra class and literally I wept with joy - I knew I'd found my true path.  I discovered that all along....

The missing ingredient from my sexuality had been a sense of the sacred.

I voraciously studied ancient practices in sacred sexuality.  I awakened to the holiness of my body and learned to harness my sexual energy as a source of power.

Becoming so self-fulfilled, I cut my work time in half and traveled the world.  The more my life revolved around pleasure, the more successful I became.

I realized that, first and foremost....

We have to be our own best lovers.

What I offer you now is a marriage between the science of psychology, and the spirituality of sacred sex. 

I've been told I give good permission.

I hope we get to play, dear sister.  You deserve to feel this good.


Here's What We'll Cover

You'll be embraced in a soft, soothing, feminine-centric environment.  Each week includes sensual movement, sharing, delicious nibbles, and lots of laughter.


Session 1: Pleasure is Medicine

(and I’m not just talking about sexual pleasure here).

Pleasure is an essential nutrient for women, and without it, we shrivel. With it, we bloom into our full, bodacious, authentic selves. Think of pleasure as a spiritual practice. You will:

  • Discover how your sexual energy is your feminine superpower, and that pleasure is a neuro-cocktail that programs your brain for confidence.

  • Learn the practice of "Taking in the Good" –and how savoring simple joys re-patterns your nervous system and your [sex] life.


Session 2: Radical Self Acceptance

Be Your Own Best Lover.

Women develop self-confidence completely differently than men, and when we strive for achievement in a masculine way we deplete our sense-of-self. Let's build an unshakable core based on feminine power. You Will:

  • Drown out other voices of the "tribe" that control and dictate feminine sexuality (it’s bullhonkey!)

  • Learn the psycho-biological science of how our sexual selves develop, and how to adjust it.

  • Practice methods that put YOU in authority of YOUR pleasure.

  • Cultivate an unconditional self-love that dissolves the inner critic and catapults your sexual radiance.


Session 3: Pussy Power

With Special Guest Teacher Lara Catone
A woman connected to her pussy is an unstoppable force.

In this module, we reclaim a lost and shamed part of our intrinsic femininity. No matter where you are in your sexuality, you will LOVE this empowering session. You will:

  • Learn the science of the brain-vagina connection, the anatomy of sexual arousal ("The Pleasure Cocktail") and how ecstasy is wired into the female nervous system.

  • Understand your unique sexual style, and come to accept that everything about YOU is correct, normal, and natural.

  • Make sense of the different types of orgasm and define a personal practice for yourself that brings you the orgasmic bliss you've always dreamed of.

  • Pelvic floor empowerment – A strong pelvis is a strong woman!


Session 4: The End of Self Sabotage

Time to Raise Your Upper Limit on Everything

Do you ever hold back your own pleasure? Pick the wrong guy over and over? Do you have a secret vice that keeps you in a shame-spiral? (ahem –we all do!) By understanding that the forces holding you back are just evolutionary mechanisms trying to keep you safe, you can gently override them (by LOVING them). You will:

  • Learn to stop blocking your own pleasure and receive what you deeply desire.

  • Stop choosing men who don’t adore you, and upgrade the quality of your relationships by making your pleasure a priority.

  • Learn how to let go of secret vices that keep you in a shame-spiral and undermine your power.


Session 5: The Sacred Slut

Reclaiming Your Divine Right to Pleasure.

We'll playfully invoke feminine archetypes that unlock erotic energies stored deep in our DNA. What do Mae West, Aphrodite, and Mary Magdalene have to teach us about sexual power? You Will:

  • Be nurtured and uplifted by our sisterhood as you dispel guilt and step fully into your unapologetic, bodacious, badass self.

  • Laugh your ass off enacting rowdy archtypes and alter-egos.

  • Gently open your sexual repertoire to a more authentic, balanced, self-honoring expression.

Session 6: Desire is a Spiritual Practice

You Have Full Permission to Want What You Want.

We’ll dispel the BIG MYTHS around desire and come to see yearning as a form of prayer. Desire is our compass, our internal GPS, and the first step in attracting all good things. You will:

  • Reclaim your right to sexual desire if the flame has dimmed through menopause, childbirth, trauma, a health crisis, or any other reason.

  • Attune to your own erotic desires, and greet the mind/body/spirit systems uniquely within you that regulate it.

  • Learn the Tantric method of Sex Magic to manifest your deepest desires and get turned on about your goals.

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Session 7: The Erotic Body

Nourishing Your Temple for Ecstasy.

We'll reveal the secrets about female sexual health that doctors aren't telling you! Feminine sex drive is a complex dance of biology and psychology, and sexual empowerment means having a relationship with hormone functioning throughout every stage of life.

Special Guest Teacher: Morgan Mellas

You will:

  • Indulge in Naturopathic and Ayurvedic healing treatments to balance hormones and boost sex drive.

  • Learn the surprising role hormones play in regulating orgasm, emotion, and love.

  • Learn the best supplements and self-care regimen that supports your specific sexual goals.




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Lara Catone,

Somatic Sex-Educator & Creatrix of The Artemis School for Women's Sexual Wellness


Lara is a trailblazer in the field of sexual wellness, leading a worldwide movement of turned on women. She’s spent the past 15 years studying and practicing the healing arts as a birth doula, certified Sexological Bodyworker, Somatic Sexologist and yoga teacher. Lara is the creatrix of The Artemis School for Women's Sexual Wellness

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Morgan Mellas,

Functional Nutrition Specialist


Morgan Mellas is a Functional Medicine Lyme Literate Physician, Completion Process Facilitator and Metaphysical Anatomy Practitioner. Since 2005, Morgan has successfully addressed conception and fertility difficulties, hormone imbalances, autoimmune conditions, gut conditions, depression, MS, Alzheimer’s, and more. Morgan believes symptoms are the body’s way of communicating. Her approach incorporates natural remedies from the earth, diet and lifestyle adjustments, remediating poor mitochondrial function, addressing childhood traumas, PTSD and attachment adaptations.



What women are saying
about the pleasure path...

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"Eva's Pleasure course is a game changer. She has a gift in the way she compiles and presents complicated information that makes it understandable and relatable. Even though I thought I had a general understanding of the material before I took the course, I got so much more out of it than I ever imagined! This has been impactful on many levels, ranging from my professional coaching and psychotherapy practice, to my increased ability to receive more pleasure, to my deeper connection with my love relationships. I feel so grateful for this experience."

Michelle Lee Weldon,



"Eva is a master!  I came to this course in the midst of a tragic divorce - I felt like I was dying, I was paralyzed with fear, and I didn't know who I was.  Eva brought me back to life with her deep wisdom, powerful presence, and brilliance in the realms of self-love and pleasure.  I've now reshaped my patterns with men, family, and most importantly - with myself.  I now cherish ME first, and hold myself as a high-value woman!  If you want more pleasure, passion, and confidence, this course is a must!"

Karin Rose Ayala,

RN, BSN, Professional Reiki Master

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"If you want to know and accept your sexuality more deeply, take Eva's course. I thought I already "knew it all," but my knowledge was incomplete without, as Eva says, "knowing and loving your biology!" So true! I now have new, powerful strategies to gently quiet my nervous system and feel more pleasure. There is SO MUCH incredible content here to help us shine as empowered, vibrant women! Eva weaves lots of science and psychology into talks that are deeply felt, poignant, and sprinkled with personal stories. Eva is a stellar teacher!"

Alyse Sweeney,

Writing Teacher

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"One of my greatest take-aways from this course (and there are many) is learning just how much our hormones and brain chemistry shape who we are. Since I've learned this, I've been able to gain more mastery around my emotions, which is very exciting and empowering. Eva is a master at creating a safe space to learn, express, and share within this wonderful community of women, so that you're able to integrate this deeply powerful wisdom into your life. I'm so grateful to have found her!"

Becca Schack,

Professional Musician / Performer

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"Eva connects women to their aliveness and their desires on every level of our lives, so that we can re-discover the layers of our power and inner confidence. I'd recommend her fascinating, unique approach through the science of your brains to help discover how to feel more pleasure and open yourself up to joy and love."

Darden Reinowski,

Professional Writer


"I feel incredibly blessed to have participated in Eva's Pleasure Path course! With each module I found myself eagerly awaiting for Eva's in-depth scientific knowledge and brilliant insight on sexuality and relationships. A deeper biological understanding of my body has profoundly enhanced my confidence, compassion, and love for myself. I am eagerly awaiting her next mind blowing course!"

Sara Mangano,

Craniosacral Therapist

You only have to let the soft animal of your body love what it loves
— Mary Oliver
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Official Bio




An acclaimed psychotherapist, sexuality expert and academic, for over two decades Eva's been following her mission to illuminate the ménage-a-trois of soul, sex, and science. As a professor of neuroscience, she bodaciously reminds us that smart is sexy. Eva's courses are a robust marriage of the profound and the playful, and she's trained extensively in mind-body therapies such as Somatic Experiencing, Gestalt, Imago Couples Therapy, Hypnotherapy, and Mindfulness, and has had the honor of working with some of the great teachers of our time - David Deida, Esther Perel, Harville Hendrix, Dan Seigel, and many others. EvaClay.com


What Feminine Leaders are Saying...

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"Eva exudes embodied confidence, and as a leader, she brings a unique and potent blend of neuroscience, Tantra, and sex education combined with her rich life experience. I have such a big YES for all that she is!"

Sofiah Thom,

Founder of Temple Body Arts™

Dawn Cartwright

"A heart in full bloom —exuding intelligence that is not only beautiful, but inspiring. Eva is a woman who leads by example, who loves without apology. Learn about yourself and all that is possible for you, side-by-side with Eva— and become who you know you can be."

dawn cartwright,

Director Chandra Bindu Tantra Institute

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"Eva stands for your liberated self-expression, sensual pleasures, and sexual empowerment. She bridges the intelligent and the emotional expression of the body so that you can come to know yourself in wholeness and power. She's a one-of-a-kind master guide and teacher."

tabby biddle,

Women's Leadership Coach & Leadership Ambassador with 'Take the Lead'

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frequently asked questions

What if I'm not sexually active?
Many women come to this course during a period sexual inactivity. It's a great opportunity to discover and reclaim the unexpressed parts of your mind, body and soul. No sexual activity is necessary to benefit from this course.

Will there be nudity or sexual acts?
No nudity or direct sex acts are planned as part of the program. You will have full choice about what you participate in. But what you do AFTER class? All bets are off ;).


How many Women will be in the course?
The course is limited to 25 participants to ensure personal attention.


Is this course appropriate for survivors of sexual trauma?
Yes, absolutely. At least 1 in 3 women have experienced some form of sexual violation. This course is specifically designed to provide a trauma-sensitive environment. Please contact us if you have further questions or concerns eva@evaclay.com

What if I miss a week?
Not to worry —all lecture portions of the course are recorded and sent upon request.


What if I don't have a partner?
NO PARTNER IS NECESSARY!  Being single is a powerful time to partner with yourself and indulge in self-care. Many single women who do this course report feeling more "magnetic" and "open" to the love they're seeking. Don't be surprised if it starts raining men ;)


Even though you're busy, I don't want you to waste any more of your precious life feeling stressed and disappointed about sex.

Discover how it feels to be erotically empowered, get these life-long tools, because...

You deserve to live a life of


Next course begins

Sept. 14, 2017

7 Thursdays in Santa Monica, CA

7:30pm - 10:00 pm

Early Bird Tuition

To August 1:

3 payments of $299


1 payment of $897


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